In the month of Valentine's (and Galentine's), love is supposedly in the air. Whether you're a lover of the celebration of love or cringing at the sight and sound of a Hallmark holiday, it's a hard one to avoid entirely. Maybe, for those of us in the early years, it's an apt reminder to pause and think about the love that sits at the heart of so much of what we do.
Now, I know this is a profession that asks a lot. But does that stop us from realising something important – that the real joy is right there, in front of us, every single day?
It's in those tiny moments when a child tells us, in their own unique way, their connection to us; when a child shows us a new skill they've grasped; or when they entertain us with their hilarious perspectives on the world. It's in the face of a parent who thanks you for supporting them at that all-important moment. We're shaping the next generation, laying the foundation for their emotional, social and cognitive development. That's a labour of love.
And working in early years isn't just about loving the work we do with children. We also work with some of the very best people – people who share our outlook, who know exactly what it's like to be knee-deep in toddler peace treaty negotiations and triumphs. There is something deeply fulfilling about being part of a team that shares a common goal. That sense of connection can reignite our enthusiasm and remind us that we are not alone in this work. The joy of working with people who get it, who support you, and who make you laugh in the middle of chaos.
And let's not forget the families. We share actual life-changing moments, watching their children grow, develop and achieve milestones. We are often the first professionals to recognise when something isn't quite right and the first to celebrate those milestones. A parent's gratitude, a child's smile, a ‘thank you’ at the end of the day – these are the love notes that make all the hard work worth it.
So, this Valentine's Day (and every day), let's work extra hard not just to do the work we do, but to relish the joy in our work. There truly is love everywhere if we choose to see it, and when you love your work, that love comes back to you in ways you can't always predict.
Happy Valentine's (and Galentine's) to all the early years heroes out there – you are the heart of early years. Keep the love alive.
